Thursday, January 22, 2009

Eh....I've been called worse

So in the last 2 days I've been called a few choice words.

Selfish.

A bitch.

Inconsiderate.

Among others.

All of this...from my teen's girlfriend. Why? Because I would like to spend his 18th birthday with him. I know, how fucking inconsiderate of me, right? How dare me make plans for his birthday, on his birthday, with the child that I gave birth to 18 years ago.

This all stemmed from me making plans on his birthday. He works evenings, nights, so he requested next Thursday off so we could do something. The girlfriend made plans with all of his friends at a different place.

But hold up! I have talked to her about this and what I had planned on doing. I even talked to her this past Tuesday morning and all was fine. Told her that I didn't want him taking to many nights off work since he only works 20 hours or so a week to begin with. She agreed and said she'd talk to all his friends and make sure everyone was there.

Tuesday night. 10:15 I get a text. 'Sorry, we've made plans for this other place so that's what we're doing.'

Ummm yeah thanks. That was my response.

So as it stands, I'm not spending the evening with my son. The one that I carried for 9 months, went through 9 hours of labor with, that I brought into this world...the one that I've raised for the last 18 years.

Yeah....happy birthday.

Yeah, thanks.

5 have this to say:

jewels said...

So I won't go into details on how I feel about this, you already know anyway. But I will say that since that boy still lives under your roof, he'd be spending the day with his mama and the gf could have a fun time kissing your ass.

Copper's Fox said...

Man... that is totally harsh - maybe he'll step up and tell her that family should come first... I'm so sorry that that big event in his life is, for you, going to be tainted with this yuckiness... I totally feel for you...

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Amanda said...

Hi Lisa, I would suggest you to start accepting all this, your boy has really grown up now! you better prepare for all this!

OPES said...

AMANDA,
WHO EXACTLY ARE YOU AND WHERE DO U THINK YOU EVEN HAVE A SHRED OF KNOWLEDGE INTO THIS SITUATION? BECAUSE YOU READ A FEW LINES ON THE INTERNET?

Please keep your BS Spewing to yourself. you have no idea the situation surrounding this!

Lisa said...

Wow! You have so much knowledge there Miss Amanda. I think before you tell me that I need to accept all of this, you need to know more about the situation.